Flurry Loose
Why do some older women?
Complain about sleeping with their husbands?? Ok before i get a flurry of upset older women ragging me out, i know this doesn’t apply to all of you. But here’s the deal. I am around a lot of older women where i work. I hear this argument all the time. Most of the time the women act so disgusted that their husbands ask them for sex. Most of them make the argument that when they’ve cleaned cooked, dealt with the kids they’re too tired for sex, but why not make time for you and your husband?? if not every night at least a few nights a week. I just dont’ believe that once you get married and have a household with kids that sex should be out of the question. I don’t get it. I LOVE SEX!!! I can’t imagine that if i marry a man i will let this desire slip away.
Im 22 not married, no kids but, i hope that me and my husband(if i choose to marry) won’t ever loose the passion between us.
Give yourself a few years.
It’s easy to judge when you’re on the outside looking in. And it’s easy to be 22 and idealistic. It’s not necessarily that women don’t want to have sex, but it’s more like life supercedes sex. When you’re married and you work full-time and you have kids to take care of and dinner to make and a house to clean and laundry to do, that supercedes the desire to have sex. It’s not just for women, but for men too. Sex becomes something that needs to oftentimes be scheduled in because of your everyday life. I too firmly believe in keeping the passion alive, but people don’t realize that the older you get and the more responsibilities you take on the harder that is and the more work you have to put in to keep that spark going. It’s a conscious effort.
It’s not about losing passion because oftentimes the passion is there. It’s about balancing it all and finding the time for that passion.
