Ferris Wheel
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Wheel of Fortune
Dear readers … I created my analogy Ferris wheel in response to years of observations and my friends love relationships.
This is the scene …. you are in a relationship that goes beyond the honeymoon period, where pink eye, seeing her once perfect couple, are now out and the relationship proverbial sleeves are rolled up ready for the next phase. Some call it a power struggle, where the actual business of getting to know kicks in.
The struggle for power is inherent in any relationship, to varying degrees, depending on previous life experience, but I see a cyclical pattern that emerges again and again, where people feel as if they never move forward, but repeating the same old things and situations.
So there are going round in circles or around Wheel of Fortune each other, saying the same old things, and resistance in the same spots. Why change … not me it's him / her … if only to get … derrr! The ups and downs, reflecting its journey around the wheel. But the replay of the call only serves to take the relationship in one direction and you're down, not forward.
In my experience, the wheel of fortune turns, because neither party is willing to change, or can not see what they are doing to create their part in it. Not only making, but the destruction of the delicacy of the emotional bond in the relationship.
Sometimes, from the beginning, both sides have established their position in life and are not really up to the aspirations and objectives of the afterlife, but the "blindness" that seems rooted in the initial stage of love romantic overlook these very important facts. The wheel of fortune then may occur because at the bottom of each person is not being met because simply want different things. I have a dear friend who is experiencing now. Differences in life means that she and her partner I can not go, because I so much desire of fullness, is not the same.
The more the wheel of fortune turns further increases become shorter and the hills and conflicts become more long. This leads to thickness ratio and de-connection starts to appear in all its forms, including fill time so you do not have to spend with your partner or even worse, find comfort in another person. And in the bottom of each wheel of fortune is the place where you can jump. Why do not we do?
It is not love when this happens, try not to have fulfilled their needs and not wanting, in some levels to make the necessary changes to give his account of what it needs to heal.
Steps to the arrest of fortune wheel:
1) First, be completely honest with yourself. This is the person you really want to be? Or who have different life goals and feel that their partner is not in the same direction? If you really do not think there is a future then communicate with your partner. This saves time and believe me future headaches.
2) During the honeymoon period. LISTEN to the logic and the heart. What are the messages from your partner gives you about yourself. Many times I hear not only hurt me in this very spot!
3) If both are committed to making work then communicate effectively. I can teach you how. Contact me.
4) Think "I can give to this relationship" rather than "what I can take it. "Act of that, What You resist, persists.
5) When things arise in the relationship that arouse deep emotion. Do not react! The involvement of the brain before mouth. If you can, remove yourself from the scene and taking the time to go inside. Sit with the feelings that come and watch without reacting. Staying balanced and let the feelings come and go they will do. What goes up goes. Is the cycle of life and the same goes for the emotions. Finally after a little practice, once these powerful emotions, and not have the effect they used to and do not control you.
5) Hold a mirror to yourself and ask "what my partner has in me, that is unresolved?" What are the feelings that really annoying when you have problems Noria? Can you admit to yourself and most importantly your partner? The beauty of being vulnerable to express what is really at the heart of his emotion, it will help lot. Find a quiet place and time to really let your remove barriers and try to tell your partner what you feel.
6) No guilt in his / her partner, because is that matter of his feelings at that moment, take responsibility for them. Tell your partner how you feel, not what you need to do to change … does not work!
7) Check your tone of voice …. is always how You Say!
8), communication, communication
About the Author
I help people define themselves and their relationships in love. Being who you really are is the key to leading the happiest and most fulfilled life and I want to teach you what I have learnt and it changed my life.
